Is The Electronic Age Making Our Relationships Cognitively Complicated?
I suffer from my own cognitive complications, because I am constantly trying to re-think situations that come into my office. Many of the relationships I work with are so complicated because they have...
View ArticleWhen intimacy causes guilt
Experiencing guilt in your intimate relationship does not destroy the relationship. Not communicating the guilt and feeling too embarrassed about your feelings, and avoiding your partner may. Guilt...
View ArticleMake time to play with your partner
The research has suggested that it is more likely that rather than the couple growing apart, they stopped valuing their playtime together. After all, the only way a relationship continues to grow is...
View ArticleKeep the score tied in your relationship
If score keeping is part of your marital plan, divorce may be as well. Keeping score is a sign of competitiveness and control. This article explains score keeping, and offers suggestions to even the...
View ArticleSave your marriage with a five step plan
Divorce is painful and difficult. Therefore avoiding one and learning how to argue with your partner in a constructive way is important and beneficial for your marriage. This plan can save your...
View Article7 signs your online romance is not real love
I have gone to several wedding where the couples met online. Their marriages seem committed and more so they are as matched as couples who found someone and dated for years. The courtship part of...
View Article10 Ways to Recover and Move On After Divorce
One out of two marriages fail, which leaves many people feeling alone, lost, and overwhelmed trying to piece their life together again. Sometimes well-meaning friends will tell you the quickest way to...
View Article7- Year Itch doesn’t have to lead to twelfth year divorce
Experiencing the seven-year itch is not a bad thing, but ignoring it, trying to sweep it under the rug, instead of dealing with it means your marriage has a greater chance of succumbing to the itch....
View ArticlePUMA: Previously Married and Attractive Men
Just as pre-marital counseling helps secure first time marriages; it can also help secure re-marriages. Counseling helps the couple define the areas of struggle and provides healthier options to deal...
View ArticleAt the End of Your Marriage, Give it One More Year
Working with couples, I have heard over and over numerous people tell me, “If I had known then what I understand now, I think we could have worked it out.” Why not take one more year when you feel you...
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